Making Space to BECOME

In the measurement world, we set a goal and strive to achieve it.

In the universe of possibility, we set the context and let life unfold.

~B. Zander

A few years ago, one of my dear friends was coming into town to do a few days of energy work sessions. I had a good friend that needed a session but could not afford it, so I gifted her a session. She was skeptical and leery…but went in with an open mind.

After the session, I went over and asked her: “ How do you FEEL?”…

She took a moment to think and feel then looked up and replied:

“I feel like…. Now…. I have SPACE.”

I asked her what she meant and she told me that after doing this clearing work she felt as if there were FINALY room to grow and progress…the SPACE to move forward.

I have thought about that conversation many times since that day.

We all talk about and strive to “manifest” or “attract” the things / thoughts / beliefs / situations we crave…but what are we RELEASING so that there is SPACE to receive these things we are so desperately calling into our existences? What are we letting go of so beautiful, powerful, NEW things, experiences, knowledge etc. can come in.

Lets go really basic in our thought process for a moment. Lets say you have a piggy bank, and every day you empty your pockets, carefully placing every single penny in the bank. You carefully and with great dedication FILL the bank full of pennies…wow! What an accomplishment!

BUT -- what happens when all of the sudden, you are no longer receiving pennies…instead; there are QUARTERS coming in…or better yet, GOLD DOLLARS? Here comes all of these things you have been working toward, manifesting and attracting…but your bank is so full of pennies that there is no room to keep them.

(And don’t say you would just get another piggy bank…FEEL my analogy here! Grin)

What do you need to do to make space for the bigger, better things that are coming in? You get rid of the pennies!

Life is meant to be an ebb and flow. We receive things in, and we release things out.

We cannot hoard or save for a better day. We are asked to SPEND it…to let it go, to someone else that needs it.

If you are working on creating or attracting a beautiful new wardrobe, (or new sexy panties, right? *laugh) the FIRST thing you need to do is clean out your closet and drawers…so there is ROOM for the new beautiful things you are seeking…RIGHT?

If you are manifesting a new body, you have to get rid of old thought patterns and beliefs about food and exercise…right? That way there is ROOM for new ideas, lifestyle and a new body to COME IN!

If you are working on becoming the woman you want to be…you have to be prepared to release some things.

So my question for today is:

What do YOU need to release to allow “space” to become the woman you want to be?

Thought processes? Beliefs about yourself or others? Habits? Anger? Resentment? Shame? Guilt?

My challenge to us all is to let go of the empty things that fill us so we have SPACE to BECOME.

Take out the trash…make Space.